I'm happy you are here. For 25+ years, it's been a pleasure to meet with people just like yourself, well, frankly, people like all of us: Those of us who may have felt lost, stuck, or hopeless, and who were seeking healing, compassionate support, and solutions toward achieving personal growth and peace. While I've had decades of experience in various settings, my specialty is working with adults of any age who've tried therapy in the past, but for whatever reason did not encounter the depth, meaning, or change they were hoping to find. I also specialize in the treatment of anxiety, depression, relationship concerns, and trauma (whether from childhood or adulthood). While that seems like a broad range of concerns, I've just been blessed to work with a variety of individuals and feel comfortable in particular with these topics or clients. I have worked in college counseling centers, hospital settings, the court system, in-home settings, community behavioral health centers, and in crisis units. I trained in graduate studies at Virginia Tech and have my undergraduate degree from the University of Mary Washington. Counseling is my third career path and it's a passion of mine.
Like many, I have also had a few twists and turns in my life, devastating losses and setbacks, and I believe these experiences help me to understand the depth of other's struggles and suffering. I also know that these roadblocks or obstacles can be overcome.
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Your potential is so much greater than your problem. Let me show you how you can trust life and trust yourself again. I humbly see my role as a facilitator to whom you can empty your heart and with whom you can suffer less. We will also work collaboratively to teach you ways to live a more open, fulfilling, & transformed life.
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Have you noticed that as November arrives, you feel a little less like yourself? Maybe you're more tired than usual, less motivated, or finding yourself wanting to withdraw from activities and people you typically enjoy. Perhaps everyday responsibilities feel a little harder, and you're not quite sure why.
For many people, the transition into fall and winter brings more than cooler temperatures and shorter days. It can also bring noticeable changes in mood, energy, motivation, and overall emotional well-being.
While it's normal to experience occasional changes in mood, some people experience a more persistent pattern of depression during the fall and winter months. This is sometimes referred to as seasonal depression or Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD).
As daylight hours decrease, changes in sunlight exposure can influence our body's internal clock, sleep patterns, and the regulation of mood-related chemicals. These changes may contribute to feelings of fatigue, low motivation, sadness, and difficulty concentrating.
You might notice:
Feeling tired even after getting adequate sleep.
Having less interest in activities you normally enjoy.
Wanting to spend more time alone or withdraw socially.
Experiencing increased irritability, sadness, or anxiety.
Having difficulty getting motivated or maintaining routines.
Experiencing changes in appetite or cravings for carbohydrates.
For individuals who already experience depression or anxiety, the transition into the darker months may make existing symptoms more noticeable.
The good news is that there are things you can do to support your emotional well-being during this time of year. Small, consistent changes can make a meaningful difference.
1. Get Outside and Seek Natural Light
Even when it's cold or cloudy, try to spend some time outdoors during daylight hours. A morning walk, sitting outside with your coffee, or taking a short break outdoors can help support your body's natural sleep-wake cycle and provide an opportunity to get some sunlight.
2. Maintain Some Structure in Your Day
When energy and motivation are low, it's easy to withdraw from your usual routines. Try to maintain a reasonably consistent schedule for waking, eating, working, and going to bed. You don't have to accomplish everything on your to-do list. Focus on a few manageable activities that give your day some structure and purpose.
3. Stay Connected to Others
When you're feeling down, socializing may be the last thing you want to do. However, isolation can sometimes intensify depressive symptoms. Make an effort to maintain connections, even in small ways. Call a friend, meet someone for coffee, take a walk with a family member, or make plans that give you something to look forward to.
4. Make Room for Activities That Bring You Pleasure
Don't underestimate the importance of doing things simply because you enjoy them. Listen to music, read a book, spend time with your pets, cook something you love, or engage in a hobby. Rather than waiting until you feel motivated, try incorporating small enjoyable activities into your routine.
5. Be Mindful of How You're Talking to Yourself
When we're feeling depressed, our internal dialogue can become increasingly critical. We may tell ourselves we're lazy, unproductive, or falling behind. Try approaching yourself with the same understanding you would offer someone you care about. Recognize that having a difficult season doesn't mean you're doing something wrong.
If you'd like to explore this idea further, and not alone, please consider reaching out for an appointment. Please email me at mary@marygaskillcounseling.com
Best,
Mary